Another thing about alot of reasons why woman don't come forward about being raped is the fact of being treated differently. If it known that you were raped, people walk around like their on egg shells with you. When I was at school, a girl in my class nearly got raped; a guy literally grabbed her while she was walking home was about to rape her when he got spooked by someone walking their dog. The whole school knew about it, we all treated her so differently, everyone kept staring at her. Watching to see if she was ok or if she was going to freak out. She missed lessons because of the subjects of the lessons, it was that bad for her. After a few years it got forgotten, only the people who were in class with her all the time remember. Being raped never leaves you whether your a man or a woman. It takes years for people to get some part of their lifes back because of it.
Anyway just wanted to put my piece in, just to try and make you understand why.